Episodes
Sunday Oct 16, 2022
Mac and Hillary: Free the Kink
Sunday Oct 16, 2022
Sunday Oct 16, 2022
Guests: Mac and Hillary, founders of FreeTheKink.com
Mac and Hillary, a couple living openly in a 24/7 power dynamic, join Auntie Vice to chat about power dynamics, kink, family and more! They explain Gorean kink. They discuss how these dynamics fit with their daily life as business owners and raising 4 children. Finally, they discuss founding FreeTheKink.com.
Website
Monday Oct 10, 2022
Sinclair Sexsmith: Spicy Writing!
Monday Oct 10, 2022
Monday Oct 10, 2022
Guest: Sinclair Sexsmith, (author, editor, kink educator)
Sinclair Sexsmith joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat about erotic writing, nonbinary identity, ethics, and teaching. They discuss the ethics and guidelines they use when engaging in erotic writing. We have an extended conversation about the "Daddy" role in kink, what that means for erotic writing, and what goes into exploring darker, less obviously consensual relationships. If you are looking for a deep dive into what it takes to be a great erotic writer, this episode is for you!
Socials and Websites
@MrSexsmith on Twitter and IG
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Copper Beckett and Lyndzi Miller: The Pegging Book
Monday Oct 03, 2022
Monday Oct 03, 2022
Guests: Cooper Beckett and Lyndzi Miller, authors, podcasters, sex educators
Cooper and Lyndzi join Fat Chicks on Top to chat about their soon-to-be released The Pegging Book. We chat about it's origins, the cultural implications of pegging, some how-to's and more!
Socials and Websites
@CooperSBeckett on Twitter
@Lyndzi on Twitter
Monday Sep 26, 2022
Dan and Dawn: Hearts & Collars
Monday Sep 26, 2022
Monday Sep 26, 2022
Guests: Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening, kink and polyamory educators, authors
Dan and Dawn join Fat Chicks on Top to talk about living as a polyam couple who practices power exchange. Dan serves as the leader of the couple and Dawn the follower while both have outside relationships with both kinky and vanilla folks. Having practiced polyamory and power exchange for more than 20 years, Dan and Dawn provide insight about these types of relationships, the pitfalls, and tools to make your polyamory less stressful.
Their new book, Hearts and Collars, covers what they have learned in 20 years as a couple. The book is filled with both stories and tools for others who may wish to pursue this relationship style.
Social Media and Sites
Twitter @Dananddawn
Instagram @EroticAwakening
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Sunday Sep 18, 2022
Demi Wylde: Harnesses His Creativity
Sunday Sep 18, 2022
Sunday Sep 18, 2022
Guest: Demi Wylde, podcaster, writer, blogger
Demi Wylde joins FCOT to chat about how he harnessed his creativity and redirected his live to embrace his passion. We chat poetry, podcasting, gay dating, living with HIV, and much more!
Sites and Socials
Books Bitter Blue Pill
All Was Nothing in a Time of Champions
Twitter @DemitriWylde
Instagram @DemitriWylde
Podcast: Hook-up Horror Stories
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Monday Aug 22, 2022
Ayzad: Embracing Duende
Monday Aug 22, 2022
Monday Aug 22, 2022
Guest: Ayzad
Former Italian journalist turned kink writer and coach, Ayzad joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about old vs new approaches to kink, the duende of sex and what he sees as missing from the modern approach, and the intersection of politics, Catholicism, and sexuality in Italy.
Website and Socials
@Ayzad on Twitter
@Ayzad_ Official on Instagram
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Monday Aug 01, 2022
Mistress Schari: This Wasn’t Covered in the Book
Monday Aug 01, 2022
Monday Aug 01, 2022
Guest: Mistress Schari, professional Dominatrix
Mistress Shari has gone from stripping her way through graduate school to working as a pro-Domme in the New York area. She has worked as a pro Domme for nearly two decades. Schari joins Fat Chicks to talk about finding her passion as a pro Domme, why she does this work, and what she has learned from years in the field. She chats about working with other women, aging, and loving running her own business. She also points folks in the right direction if they want to pursue this calling.
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Monday Jul 18, 2022
Mir Green: Caffinatrix
Monday Jul 18, 2022
Monday Jul 18, 2022
Guest: Mir Green, Owner of Wicked Grounds and kink educator
Mir Green joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about the intersection of kink identities, queerness, and politics. Tune in to find out how they organized the community to keep Starbucks from building in the Leather District in San Francisco, grouwing up queer in a 3-stoplight town in the dessert, the importance of community, and crushing the patriarchy. This episode will leave you wanting to rise up and fight the power!
Socials and Websites
Blog recommended by Mir We Hunted the Mammoth
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Monday Jun 20, 2022
Dulcinea Pitagora: Kink Doctor
Monday Jun 20, 2022
Monday Jun 20, 2022
Guest: Dulcinea Pitagora, aka The Kink Doctor
Dr. Dulcinea Pitagora joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about the academic and spiritual understanding of kink. From early work as a pro-Domme in NYC to their academic work on sub-space, the heteronormativity of ano-receptive men in kink, and more!
Auntie Vice gets to geek-out in conversation with another Ph.D. delving into the nuances of kink, trust, and connection. So. Much. Fun.
Dr. Pitagora now works as a therapist and academic in NYC. They talk about a journey of gender affirmation, healing and kink, and much more. We also touch on their great kink reading list! Check out the links below.
Sites and Social Media
@KinkDoctor on Twitter and Instagram
Reading List: https://bookshop.org/shop/DAP-LCSW-PLLC
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Rahim Thawer:Gay, Muslim, and Fabulous!
Monday Jun 06, 2022
Monday Jun 06, 2022
Guest: Rahim Thawer, therapist, college professor
Rahim Thawer is a therapist focusing on LGBTQ folks witha sub-specialty in shame. He has lived in several countries and joins Fat Chicks to talk about queerness, shame, envy, and community. He provides insight into the role circut parties play in gay life around the world. He talks about the intersecting identities of being Muslim and gay.
Sites and Social Media:
www.TheCBTDive.ca (podcast)
www.AffectiveConsult.ca (counseling site)
@LadyAtivan on Twitter and Instagram
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