Episodes
Monday Mar 06, 2023
Sunny Megatron: Sexy & Brilliant
Monday Mar 06, 2023
Monday Mar 06, 2023
Guest: Sunny Megatron, podcastor, television host, sex educator
Sunny Megatron is an award-winning Sexologist, Kink & BDSM Educator, Certified Sex Educator and Relationship Coach, and media personality. She’s the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts AASECT Award-winning American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast. XBIZ 2021 Sexpert of the Year, Sunny is now Editor-in-Chief of kink-focused Zipper Magazine.
Known for her unique build-your-own-adventure approach to sex, kink & relationships, Sunny coined the BDSM community catch-phrase, Kink is Customizable™. In her sell-out workshops, her unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny’s passion is helping people become their authentic, erotic selves by learning to overcome shame and shed inhibitions. As a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast, her work focuses on demystifying alt-sex, amplifying erotic intelligence, and ending stigma.
Sites and Links
@SunnyMegatron on Twitter, Instagram, TikTok
Monday Jan 16, 2023
Wesley Toma: ADHD, Intimacy, and Connection
Monday Jan 16, 2023
Monday Jan 16, 2023
Guest: Wesley Toma, intimacy and relationship coach
Wesley Toma, intimacy and relationship coach, joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat about developing intimacy and connection skills, opening up his long-term monogamous relationships, and living with ADHD. He specializes in LGBTQ+ and kink-aware relationship counseling.
He talks about how he and his husband went about opening up their long-term, monogamous relationship and dating in the gay community in Boston, MA. He and his partner both have ADHD. He discusses how this affects their relationship and how to be a good partner to someone who is neurodivergent.
This episode, we introduce the "Say 'Hi' to the Vibe" segment where Auntie Vice helps a listener find the right sex toy for them! This episode, Del, a middle aged trans man, searches for a dual-stimulating vibrator that fits a body after testosterone treatments.
Sites and Socials
Say Hi to the Vibe segment
Vibe recommendation: OG Flow Vibe
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Monday Nov 07, 2022
Darren Campbell: Learn, Grow, Repeat
Monday Nov 07, 2022
Monday Nov 07, 2022
Monday Oct 10, 2022
Sinclair Sexsmith: Spicy Writing!
Monday Oct 10, 2022
Monday Oct 10, 2022
Guest: Sinclair Sexsmith, (author, editor, kink educator)
Sinclair Sexsmith joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat about erotic writing, nonbinary identity, ethics, and teaching. They discuss the ethics and guidelines they use when engaging in erotic writing. We have an extended conversation about the "Daddy" role in kink, what that means for erotic writing, and what goes into exploring darker, less obviously consensual relationships. If you are looking for a deep dive into what it takes to be a great erotic writer, this episode is for you!
Socials and Websites
@MrSexsmith on Twitter and IG
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Demi Wylde: Harnesses His Creativity
Sunday Sep 18, 2022
Sunday Sep 18, 2022
Guest: Demi Wylde, podcaster, writer, blogger
Demi Wylde joins FCOT to chat about how he harnessed his creativity and redirected his live to embrace his passion. We chat poetry, podcasting, gay dating, living with HIV, and much more!
Sites and Socials
Books Bitter Blue Pill
All Was Nothing in a Time of Champions
Twitter @DemitriWylde
Instagram @DemitriWylde
Podcast: Hook-up Horror Stories
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Monday Aug 22, 2022
Ayzad: Embracing Duende
Monday Aug 22, 2022
Monday Aug 22, 2022
Guest: Ayzad
Former Italian journalist turned kink writer and coach, Ayzad joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about old vs new approaches to kink, the duende of sex and what he sees as missing from the modern approach, and the intersection of politics, Catholicism, and sexuality in Italy.
Website and Socials
@Ayzad on Twitter
@Ayzad_ Official on Instagram
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Monday Aug 08, 2022
Tallulah Breslin:Finding Your Voice
Monday Aug 08, 2022
Monday Aug 08, 2022
Guest: Tallulah Breslin, gender-affirming voice coach
Tallulah Breslin joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about gender-affirming voice coaching and how people find their voice. Voice is critical for our identities and how we interact with folks. Tallulah talks the science and art of finding your finished voice to match who you want to be.
Socials and Websites
Website: https://www.mantravoice.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mantra.voice/
YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVXchUxgdIAR0OoBS_B2l9g
Monday Jul 18, 2022
Mir Green: Caffinatrix
Monday Jul 18, 2022
Monday Jul 18, 2022
Guest: Mir Green, Owner of Wicked Grounds and kink educator
Mir Green joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about the intersection of kink identities, queerness, and politics. Tune in to find out how they organized the community to keep Starbucks from building in the Leather District in San Francisco, grouwing up queer in a 3-stoplight town in the dessert, the importance of community, and crushing the patriarchy. This episode will leave you wanting to rise up and fight the power!
Socials and Websites
Blog recommended by Mir We Hunted the Mammoth
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Monday Jun 20, 2022
Dulcinea Pitagora: Kink Doctor
Monday Jun 20, 2022
Monday Jun 20, 2022
Guest: Dulcinea Pitagora, aka The Kink Doctor
Dr. Dulcinea Pitagora joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about the academic and spiritual understanding of kink. From early work as a pro-Domme in NYC to their academic work on sub-space, the heteronormativity of ano-receptive men in kink, and more!
Auntie Vice gets to geek-out in conversation with another Ph.D. delving into the nuances of kink, trust, and connection. So. Much. Fun.
Dr. Pitagora now works as a therapist and academic in NYC. They talk about a journey of gender affirmation, healing and kink, and much more. We also touch on their great kink reading list! Check out the links below.
Sites and Social Media
@KinkDoctor on Twitter and Instagram
Reading List: https://bookshop.org/shop/DAP-LCSW-PLLC
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Rahim Thawer:Gay, Muslim, and Fabulous!
Monday Jun 06, 2022
Monday Jun 06, 2022
Guest: Rahim Thawer, therapist, college professor
Rahim Thawer is a therapist focusing on LGBTQ folks witha sub-specialty in shame. He has lived in several countries and joins Fat Chicks to talk about queerness, shame, envy, and community. He provides insight into the role circut parties play in gay life around the world. He talks about the intersecting identities of being Muslim and gay.
Sites and Social Media:
www.TheCBTDive.ca (podcast)
www.AffectiveConsult.ca (counseling site)
@LadyAtivan on Twitter and Instagram
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