Episodes
Monday Jan 16, 2023
Wesley Toma: ADHD, Intimacy, and Connection
Monday Jan 16, 2023
Monday Jan 16, 2023
Guest: Wesley Toma, intimacy and relationship coach
Wesley Toma, intimacy and relationship coach, joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat about developing intimacy and connection skills, opening up his long-term monogamous relationships, and living with ADHD. He specializes in LGBTQ+ and kink-aware relationship counseling.
He talks about how he and his husband went about opening up their long-term, monogamous relationship and dating in the gay community in Boston, MA. He and his partner both have ADHD. He discusses how this affects their relationship and how to be a good partner to someone who is neurodivergent.
This episode, we introduce the "Say 'Hi' to the Vibe" segment where Auntie Vice helps a listener find the right sex toy for them! This episode, Del, a middle aged trans man, searches for a dual-stimulating vibrator that fits a body after testosterone treatments.
Sites and Socials
Say Hi to the Vibe segment
Vibe recommendation: OG Flow Vibe
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Sunday Oct 16, 2022
Mac and Hillary: Free the Kink
Sunday Oct 16, 2022
Sunday Oct 16, 2022
Guests: Mac and Hillary, founders of FreeTheKink.com
Mac and Hillary, a couple living openly in a 24/7 power dynamic, join Auntie Vice to chat about power dynamics, kink, family and more! They explain Gorean kink. They discuss how these dynamics fit with their daily life as business owners and raising 4 children. Finally, they discuss founding FreeTheKink.com.
Website
Monday Oct 10, 2022
Sinclair Sexsmith: Spicy Writing!
Monday Oct 10, 2022
Monday Oct 10, 2022
Guest: Sinclair Sexsmith, (author, editor, kink educator)
Sinclair Sexsmith joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat about erotic writing, nonbinary identity, ethics, and teaching. They discuss the ethics and guidelines they use when engaging in erotic writing. We have an extended conversation about the "Daddy" role in kink, what that means for erotic writing, and what goes into exploring darker, less obviously consensual relationships. If you are looking for a deep dive into what it takes to be a great erotic writer, this episode is for you!
Socials and Websites
@MrSexsmith on Twitter and IG
Read the rest of this entry »Monday Sep 26, 2022
Dan and Dawn: Hearts & Collars
Monday Sep 26, 2022
Monday Sep 26, 2022
Guests: Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening, kink and polyamory educators, authors
Dan and Dawn join Fat Chicks on Top to talk about living as a polyam couple who practices power exchange. Dan serves as the leader of the couple and Dawn the follower while both have outside relationships with both kinky and vanilla folks. Having practiced polyamory and power exchange for more than 20 years, Dan and Dawn provide insight about these types of relationships, the pitfalls, and tools to make your polyamory less stressful.
Their new book, Hearts and Collars, covers what they have learned in 20 years as a couple. The book is filled with both stories and tools for others who may wish to pursue this relationship style.
Social Media and Sites
Twitter @Dananddawn
Instagram @EroticAwakening
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Monday Aug 22, 2022
Ayzad: Embracing Duende
Monday Aug 22, 2022
Monday Aug 22, 2022
Guest: Ayzad
Former Italian journalist turned kink writer and coach, Ayzad joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about old vs new approaches to kink, the duende of sex and what he sees as missing from the modern approach, and the intersection of politics, Catholicism, and sexuality in Italy.
Website and Socials
@Ayzad on Twitter
@Ayzad_ Official on Instagram
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Monday Jul 18, 2022
Mir Green: Caffinatrix
Monday Jul 18, 2022
Monday Jul 18, 2022
Guest: Mir Green, Owner of Wicked Grounds and kink educator
Mir Green joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about the intersection of kink identities, queerness, and politics. Tune in to find out how they organized the community to keep Starbucks from building in the Leather District in San Francisco, grouwing up queer in a 3-stoplight town in the dessert, the importance of community, and crushing the patriarchy. This episode will leave you wanting to rise up and fight the power!
Socials and Websites
Blog recommended by Mir We Hunted the Mammoth
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Monday Jun 20, 2022
Dulcinea Pitagora: Kink Doctor
Monday Jun 20, 2022
Monday Jun 20, 2022
Guest: Dulcinea Pitagora, aka The Kink Doctor
Dr. Dulcinea Pitagora joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about the academic and spiritual understanding of kink. From early work as a pro-Domme in NYC to their academic work on sub-space, the heteronormativity of ano-receptive men in kink, and more!
Auntie Vice gets to geek-out in conversation with another Ph.D. delving into the nuances of kink, trust, and connection. So. Much. Fun.
Dr. Pitagora now works as a therapist and academic in NYC. They talk about a journey of gender affirmation, healing and kink, and much more. We also touch on their great kink reading list! Check out the links below.
Sites and Social Media
@KinkDoctor on Twitter and Instagram
Reading List: https://bookshop.org/shop/DAP-LCSW-PLLC
Read the rest of this entry »Sunday May 08, 2022
Shay Tizano: Bound Up in Joy
Sunday May 08, 2022
Sunday May 08, 2022
Guest: Shay Tizano, Rope expert, Erotic Performer
Author of Tying and Flying and Creating Captivating Classes
Shay joins Fat Chicks on Top to discuss finding rope, exploring self-suspension and the erotic arts. Creator of Twisted Windows, a kink erotic show in San Francisco, CA, Shay seeks to explore and expand how people experience erotic performances and rope.
Social Media:
Instagram @ShayTizano
Twitter @ShayBlondie
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Sunday May 01, 2022
Rain De Grey: Creating All the Things
Sunday May 01, 2022
Sunday May 01, 2022
Guest: Rain De Grey (author, performer, advice columnist, podcaster)
Rain De Grey pursues experiences and is constantly creating. She produces and hosts the podcast Dirty Talk, writes the advice column "Dirty Talk," teaches in kink and BDSM, and is the star of more than two dozen erotic films. We talk the drive to create, neurodivergence, teaching, and living the life you want.
Rain goes deep into how autism, ADHD, and CPTSD shape her understanding of the world and are a bit of her superpower when it comes to the drive to constantly create.
Smart, thoughtful, and deeply insightful this conversation gives listeners a deeper understanding of both neurodivergence and creativity.
Find Rain at:
@RainDeGrey on Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook
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Monday Apr 04, 2022
Devyn Stone: Striving & Thriving
Monday Apr 04, 2022
Monday Apr 04, 2022
Guest: Devyn Stone, Kink Educator
Devyn Stone, kink educator and therapist, joins Auntie Vice to talk about how he became a kink educator, neurodivergence, the fawn response, and more! He talks about how he came to know he processed information differently from other people and how that understanding opened up his world.
He also discusses the upcoming Thrive conference - a conference dedicated to the psychological aspects of kink. The conference is free, online, and can be attended with a brief registration.
Register for Thrive at www.ThriveVirtualConference.com.
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