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Fat Chicks on Top, a body liberation podcast We cover fatness, race, sex, gender, drag sex work, kink, relationships, geek stuff, and more!
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Monday Jun 26, 2023
Monday Jun 26, 2023
Guest: Midori
Midori, author of the first English-language book on Japanese bondage and kink educator extrodinaire joins Auntie Vice to chat about her work. She is an artist focusing on fiber crafts rooted in her identity. She has been teaching kink and dominance for decades and made a major difference in thousands of people's kink journeys. We have an Auntie to Auntie conversation about kink, art, and identity.
Sites and Socials
The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
Wild Side of Sex: The Book of Kink
Midori on Bawdy Storytelling "Infamous"
Midori on Bawdy Storytelling "Strange Bedfellows"
Read the rest of this entry »Monday Jun 19, 2023
Monday Jun 19, 2023
Guest: Susan Wright, Founder and Media Outreach for National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Susan Wright joins Auntie Vice to chat about the work of NCSF including "Consent Counts," working to revise the paraphillia section of the DSM to remove consensual adult kink from mental health disorders, and revising the sexual assault laws for the first time since 1962.
The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is the only outward-facing advocacy organization working for more freedoms for the kinky and nonmonogamous communities, Susan Wright founded NSCF as an outgrowth of her work with the National Organization for Women around the D/s clause in NOW's platform in the 1980s and 1990s. The work of NCSF has been critical in creating a culture of consent and safetly for all.
Sites and Socials
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Link for SW peer support group
Link for EARN IT Act opposition letter
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Monday Apr 10, 2023
Monday Apr 10, 2023
Guest: Luna Matatas, educator, pleasure advocate
Luna Matatas, entreprenuer, pleasure educator and advocate, joins Auntie Vice to discuss her life as an HIV/AIDS educator, discovering her own pleasure, and coming into her own body and voice. She covers everything from feminine dominance, to CBT, to finding the right folks to take sexy pics of bigger, darker bodies (its a skill that most photographers lack!).
SItes and Socials
@LunaMatatas on most social media
Ask Your Auntie!
AYA segment is back answering a letter from a listener. The one covers how to eroticize an outie belly button! So much fun to provide new and fun ways to work with an outie. : )
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Monday Mar 20, 2023
Monday Mar 20, 2023
Guest: Dr. Marla Renee Stewart, sexologist, educator, founder of Sex Down South, Clitfest, and Dickfest
Dr. Marla Renee Stewart, educator and pleasure pioneer, joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about a career in human sexuality, Black queer sexuality, and founding major conferences about pleasure!Marla, a Californian native and a Southern transplant, is a woman with passion, charisma and integrity. Motivated by passion, her mission in life is to educate and inspire others in a variety of ways. First and foremost, she is truly dedicated to getting people in touch with their body, mind and spirit. She believes in harnessing love and accepting people for who they are and where they are at in their lives. Her non-judgmental spirit speaks to people from all different backgrounds and she has the ability to get along with just about anyone. She is a maven in most everything that she pursues and she strives for perfection in everything she does. Mediocre is not in her vocabulary. She has a wonderful and supportive family, as well as amazing and compassionate friends. When she has some free time, she likes to watch movies, have provocative conversations with her friends and play basketball. She also loves to dance and convince her house guests to play strategy games with her
Sites and Socials:
MarlaReneeStewart.com Personal site
Velve Lips Sex Ed content
Sex Down South Conference
Race & Kink Monthly online series
Read the rest of this entry »Monday Mar 06, 2023
Monday Mar 06, 2023
Guest: Sunny Megatron, podcastor, television host, sex educator
Sunny Megatron is an award-winning Sexologist, Kink & BDSM Educator, Certified Sex Educator and Relationship Coach, and media personality. She’s the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts AASECT Award-winning American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast. XBIZ 2021 Sexpert of the Year, Sunny is now Editor-in-Chief of kink-focused Zipper Magazine.
Known for her unique build-your-own-adventure approach to sex, kink & relationships, Sunny coined the BDSM community catch-phrase, Kink is Customizable™. In her sell-out workshops, her unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny’s passion is helping people become their authentic, erotic selves by learning to overcome shame and shed inhibitions. As a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast, her work focuses on demystifying alt-sex, amplifying erotic intelligence, and ending stigma.
Sites and Links
@SunnyMegatron on Twitter, Instagram, TikTok
Monday Feb 27, 2023
Monday Feb 27, 2023
Guest: Rachel Kramer Bussel, author, editor
Rachel Kramer Bussel, erotic and nonfiction author and editor for more than 70 anthologies joins Auntie Vice to chat about her career, writing, editing, and what she has learned through the process. After leaving law school to pursue writing, Bussel became one of the most recognized authors and editors of erotic stories. She chats about what writing erotica taught her about herself and her body, what its like to be a prolific editor, and the state of book bans in the United States.
Sites and Socials
Twitter: @Raquelita
Instagram @RachelKramerBussel
How to Write Erotica (book)
Read the rest of this entry »Sunday Feb 19, 2023
Sunday Feb 19, 2023
Guests: Dick Wound and Bidaily of Off the Cuffs Podcast
The hosts of Off the Cuffs podcast, Dick Wound and Bidaily, join Auntie Vice to chat about what kink has meant to them and how it has changed their lives. One of the longest-running kinky lifestyle podcasts, Off the Cuffs has followed both Dick and Bidaily as they have grown through their kink journey. While many of their shows bring on guests to chat about their kink journeys, Auntie Vice gets down and dirty into what kink has meant for them.
Both Dick and Bidaily share about how finding kink helped them overcome shame and trauma in their past. Dick talks about how kink helped him find his way out of depression after a serious heart attack at the age of 30 (!!!) and Bidaily talks about her journey out the shame and trauma of purity culture.
Sites and Socials
Podcast Instagram @OCPKink
Podcast Twitter @OPCKink
Bidaily Twitter https://twitter.com/bidaily666
Bidaily Instagram https://www.instagram.com/bidaily666/
Bidaily on Onlyfans Bidaily666
Dick Wound on Twitter: @Dickwound
Dick Wound on Instagram @DWPodhost
Monday Jan 16, 2023
Monday Jan 16, 2023
Guest: Wesley Toma, intimacy and relationship coach
Wesley Toma, intimacy and relationship coach, joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat about developing intimacy and connection skills, opening up his long-term monogamous relationships, and living with ADHD. He specializes in LGBTQ+ and kink-aware relationship counseling.
He talks about how he and his husband went about opening up their long-term, monogamous relationship and dating in the gay community in Boston, MA. He and his partner both have ADHD. He discusses how this affects their relationship and how to be a good partner to someone who is neurodivergent.
This episode, we introduce the "Say 'Hi' to the Vibe" segment where Auntie Vice helps a listener find the right sex toy for them! This episode, Del, a middle aged trans man, searches for a dual-stimulating vibrator that fits a body after testosterone treatments.
Sites and Socials
Say Hi to the Vibe segment
Vibe recommendation: OG Flow Vibe
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Monday Oct 24, 2022
Monday Oct 24, 2022
Guest: Ruan Willow, writer and podcaster
Ruan Willow, host of Oh F*ck Yeah! podcast and author of over a dozen erotic novels joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat erotic writing, what it has taught her, and how it helped lessened her own shame.
Sites and Socials
Read the rest of this entry »Monday Oct 10, 2022
Monday Oct 10, 2022
Guest: Sinclair Sexsmith, (author, editor, kink educator)
Sinclair Sexsmith joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat about erotic writing, nonbinary identity, ethics, and teaching. They discuss the ethics and guidelines they use when engaging in erotic writing. We have an extended conversation about the "Daddy" role in kink, what that means for erotic writing, and what goes into exploring darker, less obviously consensual relationships. If you are looking for a deep dive into what it takes to be a great erotic writer, this episode is for you!
Socials and Websites
@MrSexsmith on Twitter and IG
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