Episodes
Monday Sep 11, 2023
Alesandra Madison: Living the D/s Life!
Monday Sep 11, 2023
Monday Sep 11, 2023
Guest: Alesandra Madison (blogger, teacher)
Alesandra runs one of the most popular kink blogs, DomSubLiving.com. She joins Auntie Vice to chat about the origin of her work, her personal journey as a submissive, feminism and BDSM, and much more! She lives a full-time power exchange life with her husband. She discusses what that means for raising children, how she talks to her two sons about feminism and gender roles while maintiaing a power exchange relationship with their father, punishments for her, and how D/s has helped her personally with behavior modification.
Sites and Socials
DomSubLiving on all social media platforms
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Monday Aug 28, 2023
Auntie Vice Responds to Listeners
Monday Aug 28, 2023
Monday Aug 28, 2023
In this episode of "Fat Chicks on Top," the host discusses various topics related to accountability, consent, and community safety within the kink community. The host mentions receiving a listener's question about whether an episode featuring Boss Boar, who has been accused of consent violations and possible sexual assault, should be removed. The host explains the complexities of deciding whether to remove an episode, considering the concept of responsibility in the community and varying degrees of consent violations. The host emphasizes the importance of education, understanding, and ongoing discussions surrounding consent.
The host also explores the issue of holding individuals and organizations accountable for problematic behavior, highlighting the need for vetting guests and addressing past problematic behavior. Additionally, the host addresses the importance of inclusive spaces, accessibility, and recognizing the diverse needs and concerns of the community when organizing events. The host shares resources and websites related to submission and kink, as well as upcoming events and classes for listeners to participate in. The episode concludes with an invitation to a body-positive swim event and a reminder to like, subscribe, and review the podcast.
The episode was produced and hosted by Rebecca Blanton, with audio production by CharRon Smith and music by David Manga and CharRon Smith. For more information about "Fat Chicks on Top," listeners can visit the website at fatchickson top.com.
Read the rest of this entry »Monday Jul 24, 2023
Zachary Zane: Boy Slut
Monday Jul 24, 2023
Monday Jul 24, 2023
Guest: Zachary Zane (writer, sexpert)
Zachary Zane, sexpert for Men's Health, joins Auntie Vice to talk about being audibly bisexual, his new book Boy Slut, writing about sex for a decade, and OCD. Zane discusses his journey to finding his bisexual identity and becoming a voice for bi folks. The title of his book is a cheeky way to expose the double standard of sluttiness between men and women and the stereotype of bi folks. Zane is insightful about biphobia and gender relations for his young 32 years!
Sites and Socials
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Monday Jul 10, 2023
Kate Sloan: Juicy Girl
Monday Jul 10, 2023
Monday Jul 10, 2023
Guest: Kate Sloan (writer, podcaster)
Kate Sloan joins Auntie Vice to chat about life as a sex writer and podcaster. They cover kink, living with Bipolar disorder, chronic pain, sex, and how D/s dynamics can be healing.
Sites and Socials
101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do
200 Words to Help You Discuss Sex and Gender
Mac Liquid Last Black Eyeliner
Read the rest of this entry »Monday Jul 03, 2023
Kitty Stryker:Refining Consent Culture
Monday Jul 03, 2023
Monday Jul 03, 2023
Guest: Kitty Stryker (writer, activist)
Kitty Stryker, author of Ask: Building Consent Culture and Ask Yourself: The Consent Culture Workbook joins Auntie Vice to chat about the nuances of consent, anger, activism, and change. Her deep thinking on consent and how interpersonal and structural power changes one's ability to fully consent has implications for politics, governing boards, medicine, policy, and the culture in general.
Sites and Socials
KittyStyker.com (site)
Read the rest of this entry »Monday Jun 26, 2023
Midori: Writer, Educator, Artist
Monday Jun 26, 2023
Monday Jun 26, 2023
Guest: Midori
Midori, author of the first English-language book on Japanese bondage and kink educator extrodinaire joins Auntie Vice to chat about her work. She is an artist focusing on fiber crafts rooted in her identity. She has been teaching kink and dominance for decades and made a major difference in thousands of people's kink journeys. We have an Auntie to Auntie conversation about kink, art, and identity.
Sites and Socials
The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
Wild Side of Sex: The Book of Kink
Midori on Bawdy Storytelling "Infamous"
Midori on Bawdy Storytelling "Strange Bedfellows"
Read the rest of this entry »Monday Jun 19, 2023
Susan Wright: National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Monday Jun 19, 2023
Monday Jun 19, 2023
Guest: Susan Wright, Founder and Media Outreach for National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Susan Wright joins Auntie Vice to chat about the work of NCSF including "Consent Counts," working to revise the paraphillia section of the DSM to remove consensual adult kink from mental health disorders, and revising the sexual assault laws for the first time since 1962.
The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is the only outward-facing advocacy organization working for more freedoms for the kinky and nonmonogamous communities, Susan Wright founded NSCF as an outgrowth of her work with the National Organization for Women around the D/s clause in NOW's platform in the 1980s and 1990s. The work of NCSF has been critical in creating a culture of consent and safetly for all.
Sites and Socials
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Link for SW peer support group
Link for EARN IT Act opposition letter
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Monday Apr 10, 2023
Luna Matatas: In Persuit of Pleasure
Monday Apr 10, 2023
Monday Apr 10, 2023
Guest: Luna Matatas, educator, pleasure advocate
Luna Matatas, entreprenuer, pleasure educator and advocate, joins Auntie Vice to discuss her life as an HIV/AIDS educator, discovering her own pleasure, and coming into her own body and voice. She covers everything from feminine dominance, to CBT, to finding the right folks to take sexy pics of bigger, darker bodies (its a skill that most photographers lack!).
SItes and Socials
@LunaMatatas on most social media
Ask Your Auntie!
AYA segment is back answering a letter from a listener. The one covers how to eroticize an outie belly button! So much fun to provide new and fun ways to work with an outie. : )
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Monday Mar 20, 2023
Marla Renee Stewart: Pioneering Pleasure
Monday Mar 20, 2023
Monday Mar 20, 2023
Guest: Dr. Marla Renee Stewart, sexologist, educator, founder of Sex Down South, Clitfest, and Dickfest
Dr. Marla Renee Stewart, educator and pleasure pioneer, joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about a career in human sexuality, Black queer sexuality, and founding major conferences about pleasure!Marla, a Californian native and a Southern transplant, is a woman with passion, charisma and integrity. Motivated by passion, her mission in life is to educate and inspire others in a variety of ways. First and foremost, she is truly dedicated to getting people in touch with their body, mind and spirit. She believes in harnessing love and accepting people for who they are and where they are at in their lives. Her non-judgmental spirit speaks to people from all different backgrounds and she has the ability to get along with just about anyone. She is a maven in most everything that she pursues and she strives for perfection in everything she does. Mediocre is not in her vocabulary. She has a wonderful and supportive family, as well as amazing and compassionate friends. When she has some free time, she likes to watch movies, have provocative conversations with her friends and play basketball. She also loves to dance and convince her house guests to play strategy games with her
Sites and Socials:
MarlaReneeStewart.com Personal site
Velve Lips Sex Ed content
Sex Down South Conference
Race & Kink Monthly online series
Read the rest of this entry »Monday Mar 06, 2023
Sunny Megatron: Sexy & Brilliant
Monday Mar 06, 2023
Monday Mar 06, 2023
Guest: Sunny Megatron, podcastor, television host, sex educator
Sunny Megatron is an award-winning Sexologist, Kink & BDSM Educator, Certified Sex Educator and Relationship Coach, and media personality. She’s the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts AASECT Award-winning American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast. XBIZ 2021 Sexpert of the Year, Sunny is now Editor-in-Chief of kink-focused Zipper Magazine.
Known for her unique build-your-own-adventure approach to sex, kink & relationships, Sunny coined the BDSM community catch-phrase, Kink is Customizable™. In her sell-out workshops, her unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny’s passion is helping people become their authentic, erotic selves by learning to overcome shame and shed inhibitions. As a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast, her work focuses on demystifying alt-sex, amplifying erotic intelligence, and ending stigma.
Sites and Links
@SunnyMegatron on Twitter, Instagram, TikTok