Episodes
Monday Oct 02, 2023
Janet Hardy: Aging Pervert
Monday Oct 02, 2023
Monday Oct 02, 2023
Guest: Janet Hardy (author, publisher, educator, awesome human)
Janet Hardy, author of epic works including The Ethical Slut, The New Topping Book, and Radical Exstacy, joins Auntie Vice to chat about her new memoir Notes From an Aging Pervert. In this memoir, Janet reflects on her life as a genderqueer, BDSM and polyamous pioneer. She gives readers insight into her aging process and her new phase of life.
We cover everything from being released from our meat suits (dying), to riding the sex train to the end of the line, to the joys of not having to worry constantly about money.
Books by Janet Hardy
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Monday Jul 24, 2023
Zachary Zane: Boy Slut
Monday Jul 24, 2023
Monday Jul 24, 2023
Guest: Zachary Zane (writer, sexpert)
Zachary Zane, sexpert for Men's Health, joins Auntie Vice to talk about being audibly bisexual, his new book Boy Slut, writing about sex for a decade, and OCD. Zane discusses his journey to finding his bisexual identity and becoming a voice for bi folks. The title of his book is a cheeky way to expose the double standard of sluttiness between men and women and the stereotype of bi folks. Zane is insightful about biphobia and gender relations for his young 32 years!
Sites and Socials
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Monday Jun 19, 2023
Susan Wright: National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Monday Jun 19, 2023
Monday Jun 19, 2023
Guest: Susan Wright, Founder and Media Outreach for National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Susan Wright joins Auntie Vice to chat about the work of NCSF including "Consent Counts," working to revise the paraphillia section of the DSM to remove consensual adult kink from mental health disorders, and revising the sexual assault laws for the first time since 1962.
The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is the only outward-facing advocacy organization working for more freedoms for the kinky and nonmonogamous communities, Susan Wright founded NSCF as an outgrowth of her work with the National Organization for Women around the D/s clause in NOW's platform in the 1980s and 1990s. The work of NCSF has been critical in creating a culture of consent and safetly for all.
Sites and Socials
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Link for SW peer support group
Link for EARN IT Act opposition letter
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Monday Mar 06, 2023
Sunny Megatron: Sexy & Brilliant
Monday Mar 06, 2023
Monday Mar 06, 2023
Guest: Sunny Megatron, podcastor, television host, sex educator
Sunny Megatron is an award-winning Sexologist, Kink & BDSM Educator, Certified Sex Educator and Relationship Coach, and media personality. She’s the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts AASECT Award-winning American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast. XBIZ 2021 Sexpert of the Year, Sunny is now Editor-in-Chief of kink-focused Zipper Magazine.
Known for her unique build-your-own-adventure approach to sex, kink & relationships, Sunny coined the BDSM community catch-phrase, Kink is Customizable™. In her sell-out workshops, her unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny’s passion is helping people become their authentic, erotic selves by learning to overcome shame and shed inhibitions. As a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast, her work focuses on demystifying alt-sex, amplifying erotic intelligence, and ending stigma.
Sites and Links
@SunnyMegatron on Twitter, Instagram, TikTok
Sunday Feb 19, 2023
Dick Wound & BiDaily: The Healing Powers of Kink
Sunday Feb 19, 2023
Sunday Feb 19, 2023
Guests: Dick Wound and Bidaily of Off the Cuffs Podcast
The hosts of Off the Cuffs podcast, Dick Wound and Bidaily, join Auntie Vice to chat about what kink has meant to them and how it has changed their lives. One of the longest-running kinky lifestyle podcasts, Off the Cuffs has followed both Dick and Bidaily as they have grown through their kink journey. While many of their shows bring on guests to chat about their kink journeys, Auntie Vice gets down and dirty into what kink has meant for them.
Both Dick and Bidaily share about how finding kink helped them overcome shame and trauma in their past. Dick talks about how kink helped him find his way out of depression after a serious heart attack at the age of 30 (!!!) and Bidaily talks about her journey out the shame and trauma of purity culture.
Sites and Socials
Podcast Instagram @OCPKink
Podcast Twitter @OPCKink
Bidaily Twitter https://twitter.com/bidaily666
Bidaily Instagram https://www.instagram.com/bidaily666/
Bidaily on Onlyfans Bidaily666
Dick Wound on Twitter: @Dickwound
Dick Wound on Instagram @DWPodhost
Monday Jan 16, 2023
Wesley Toma: ADHD, Intimacy, and Connection
Monday Jan 16, 2023
Monday Jan 16, 2023
Guest: Wesley Toma, intimacy and relationship coach
Wesley Toma, intimacy and relationship coach, joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat about developing intimacy and connection skills, opening up his long-term monogamous relationships, and living with ADHD. He specializes in LGBTQ+ and kink-aware relationship counseling.
He talks about how he and his husband went about opening up their long-term, monogamous relationship and dating in the gay community in Boston, MA. He and his partner both have ADHD. He discusses how this affects their relationship and how to be a good partner to someone who is neurodivergent.
This episode, we introduce the "Say 'Hi' to the Vibe" segment where Auntie Vice helps a listener find the right sex toy for them! This episode, Del, a middle aged trans man, searches for a dual-stimulating vibrator that fits a body after testosterone treatments.
Sites and Socials
Say Hi to the Vibe segment
Vibe recommendation: OG Flow Vibe
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Monday Oct 03, 2022
Copper Beckett and Lyndzi Miller: The Pegging Book
Monday Oct 03, 2022
Monday Oct 03, 2022
Guests: Cooper Beckett and Lyndzi Miller, authors, podcasters, sex educators
Cooper and Lyndzi join Fat Chicks on Top to chat about their soon-to-be released The Pegging Book. We chat about it's origins, the cultural implications of pegging, some how-to's and more!
Socials and Websites
@CooperSBeckett on Twitter
@Lyndzi on Twitter
Monday Sep 26, 2022
Dan and Dawn: Hearts & Collars
Monday Sep 26, 2022
Monday Sep 26, 2022
Guests: Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening, kink and polyamory educators, authors
Dan and Dawn join Fat Chicks on Top to talk about living as a polyam couple who practices power exchange. Dan serves as the leader of the couple and Dawn the follower while both have outside relationships with both kinky and vanilla folks. Having practiced polyamory and power exchange for more than 20 years, Dan and Dawn provide insight about these types of relationships, the pitfalls, and tools to make your polyamory less stressful.
Their new book, Hearts and Collars, covers what they have learned in 20 years as a couple. The book is filled with both stories and tools for others who may wish to pursue this relationship style.
Social Media and Sites
Twitter @Dananddawn
Instagram @EroticAwakening
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Monday Apr 11, 2022
Meg Elison Hasn’t Seen Straight People in 7 Days
Monday Apr 11, 2022
Monday Apr 11, 2022
Guest: Meg Elison
Ask Your Auntie: Tri tip, chili recipes
Episode:
Meg Elison, author of The Road to Nowhere series and recent Nebula winner for "The Pill", joins Auntie Vice to talk all things fat chicks.
- Growing up queer and fat.
- Writing futurism and sci-fi with queer and trans characters
- Best Lesbian Erotica v. 6
- Needing more sex in adult novels
- Dating as a bisexual
and... an amazing list of suggested reading!!!
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Books Mentioned in This Episode
Sabrina Springs. Fearing the Black Body: The Racial Origins of Fat Phobia
Boston Women’s Health Collective and Judy Norsigan. Our Bodies, Ourselves
Virgie Tovar, You Have the Right to Remain Fat
Siri Walker, Dietland
Julie Murphy , Dumplin’
Julie Murphy, If the Shoe Fits
Kate Staymen-London, The One to Watch
Peter Benchly, Jaws
Sinclair Sexsmith, ed., Best Lesbian Erotica, volume 6
Meg Elison, The Unnamed Midwife
Meg Elison, The Book of Etta
Meg Elison, Book of Flora
Meg Elison, “The Pill” in Big Girl
Collette, The Collective Stories of Collette
Pat Califia, Macho Sluts
Melinda Lao, Last Night at the Telegraph Club
Gretchen Felker-Martin Manhunter
Monday Apr 04, 2022
Devyn Stone: Striving & Thriving
Monday Apr 04, 2022
Monday Apr 04, 2022
Guest: Devyn Stone, Kink Educator
Devyn Stone, kink educator and therapist, joins Auntie Vice to talk about how he became a kink educator, neurodivergence, the fawn response, and more! He talks about how he came to know he processed information differently from other people and how that understanding opened up his world.
He also discusses the upcoming Thrive conference - a conference dedicated to the psychological aspects of kink. The conference is free, online, and can be attended with a brief registration.
Register for Thrive at www.ThriveVirtualConference.com.
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