Episodes
Monday Feb 05, 2024
Mollena Lee Williams-Haas: Living Loudly
Monday Feb 05, 2024
Monday Feb 05, 2024
This episode has explicit discussion of race play. Please be advised it may be upsetting to some folks. The play we discuss is consensual and there are no derogatory terms used in the episode.
Guest: Mollena Lee Williams-Hass (Actress, Writer, Educator, Librettist)
Larger than life, phat as hell, whipsmart AND smart about whips, Mollena [aka "The Perverted Negress" aaka "Mo" aaaka "Pony Oracle," but that is a longer tail] is a performer, storyteller, BDSM/Kink/Leather/AlternativeLifestyle Educatrix, Executive Pervert, librettist and Muse. She is beloved by and in service to her "Spousemeister," legendary contemporary music composer Georg Friedrich Haas.
Mollena is an outspoken footsoldier in the fight against bigotry and ignorance and a thought-leader in the world of Power Exchange dynamics. AND hey, she's been sober since 2007 and has a hard-on for living life fully and unabashedly.
We chat edge play, acting, story telling, race play, cannibalism, feral lesbians, and much more!
Sites and Socials
@Mollena on most other socials
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Zachary Zane: Boy Slut
Monday Jul 24, 2023
Monday Jul 24, 2023
Guest: Zachary Zane (writer, sexpert)
Zachary Zane, sexpert for Men's Health, joins Auntie Vice to talk about being audibly bisexual, his new book Boy Slut, writing about sex for a decade, and OCD. Zane discusses his journey to finding his bisexual identity and becoming a voice for bi folks. The title of his book is a cheeky way to expose the double standard of sluttiness between men and women and the stereotype of bi folks. Zane is insightful about biphobia and gender relations for his young 32 years!
Sites and Socials
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Monday Mar 13, 2023
Chrissy King: Black, Beautiful, & Liberated!
Monday Mar 13, 2023
Monday Mar 13, 2023
Guest: Chrissy King, author
Chrissy King, writer and wellness influencer, joins Auntie Vice to chat about her new book, The Body LIberation Project: How Understanding Racism and Diet Culture Cultivates Joy and Build Collective Freedom, and her work in body liberation. From working in the depths of diet culture as a personal fitness trainer to divorcing diet culture and working toward body liberation for all, she talks about her journey and what she has learned.
Her book and our conversation was absolutely fantastic! Chrissy shares so much insight and much of her story will resonnate with the listerners. This is a must-hear show!
Sites and Socials
@IAmChrissyKing on Twitter and Instagram
Monday Jan 16, 2023
Wesley Toma: ADHD, Intimacy, and Connection
Monday Jan 16, 2023
Monday Jan 16, 2023
Guest: Wesley Toma, intimacy and relationship coach
Wesley Toma, intimacy and relationship coach, joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat about developing intimacy and connection skills, opening up his long-term monogamous relationships, and living with ADHD. He specializes in LGBTQ+ and kink-aware relationship counseling.
He talks about how he and his husband went about opening up their long-term, monogamous relationship and dating in the gay community in Boston, MA. He and his partner both have ADHD. He discusses how this affects their relationship and how to be a good partner to someone who is neurodivergent.
This episode, we introduce the "Say 'Hi' to the Vibe" segment where Auntie Vice helps a listener find the right sex toy for them! This episode, Del, a middle aged trans man, searches for a dual-stimulating vibrator that fits a body after testosterone treatments.
Sites and Socials
Say Hi to the Vibe segment
Vibe recommendation: OG Flow Vibe
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Monday Nov 07, 2022
Darren Campbell: Learn, Grow, Repeat
Monday Nov 07, 2022
Monday Nov 07, 2022
Monday Sep 26, 2022
Dan and Dawn: Hearts & Collars
Monday Sep 26, 2022
Monday Sep 26, 2022
Guests: Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening, kink and polyamory educators, authors
Dan and Dawn join Fat Chicks on Top to talk about living as a polyam couple who practices power exchange. Dan serves as the leader of the couple and Dawn the follower while both have outside relationships with both kinky and vanilla folks. Having practiced polyamory and power exchange for more than 20 years, Dan and Dawn provide insight about these types of relationships, the pitfalls, and tools to make your polyamory less stressful.
Their new book, Hearts and Collars, covers what they have learned in 20 years as a couple. The book is filled with both stories and tools for others who may wish to pursue this relationship style.
Social Media and Sites
Twitter @Dananddawn
Instagram @EroticAwakening
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Sunday Sep 18, 2022
Demi Wylde: Harnesses His Creativity
Sunday Sep 18, 2022
Sunday Sep 18, 2022
Guest: Demi Wylde, podcaster, writer, blogger
Demi Wylde joins FCOT to chat about how he harnessed his creativity and redirected his live to embrace his passion. We chat poetry, podcasting, gay dating, living with HIV, and much more!
Sites and Socials
Books Bitter Blue Pill
All Was Nothing in a Time of Champions
Twitter @DemitriWylde
Instagram @DemitriWylde
Podcast: Hook-up Horror Stories
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Monday Jun 06, 2022
Rahim Thawer:Gay, Muslim, and Fabulous!
Monday Jun 06, 2022
Monday Jun 06, 2022
Guest: Rahim Thawer, therapist, college professor
Rahim Thawer is a therapist focusing on LGBTQ folks witha sub-specialty in shame. He has lived in several countries and joins Fat Chicks to talk about queerness, shame, envy, and community. He provides insight into the role circut parties play in gay life around the world. He talks about the intersecting identities of being Muslim and gay.
Sites and Social Media:
www.TheCBTDive.ca (podcast)
www.AffectiveConsult.ca (counseling site)
@LadyAtivan on Twitter and Instagram
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Jet Noir: Muse
Monday May 30, 2022
Monday May 30, 2022
Guest: Jet Noir, Burlesque dancer
Jet Noir joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about burlesque, inspiration, living in iconic cities, and being raised in a sex-positive family in Detroit in the 1980s.
As a Black, cis-male dancer, Jet has a different journey and experience with the art form that the other artists featured in the Erotic Performer series.
One of my most interesting interviews!
Social Media:
Shows:
June 18th, Moist: An All-Black Caberet, Oasis Cafe, San Francisco
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Monday Apr 11, 2022
Meg Elison Hasn’t Seen Straight People in 7 Days
Monday Apr 11, 2022
Monday Apr 11, 2022
Guest: Meg Elison
Ask Your Auntie: Tri tip, chili recipes
Episode:
Meg Elison, author of The Road to Nowhere series and recent Nebula winner for "The Pill", joins Auntie Vice to talk all things fat chicks.
- Growing up queer and fat.
- Writing futurism and sci-fi with queer and trans characters
- Best Lesbian Erotica v. 6
- Needing more sex in adult novels
- Dating as a bisexual
and... an amazing list of suggested reading!!!
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Books Mentioned in This Episode
Sabrina Springs. Fearing the Black Body: The Racial Origins of Fat Phobia
Boston Women’s Health Collective and Judy Norsigan. Our Bodies, Ourselves
Virgie Tovar, You Have the Right to Remain Fat
Siri Walker, Dietland
Julie Murphy , Dumplin’
Julie Murphy, If the Shoe Fits
Kate Staymen-London, The One to Watch
Peter Benchly, Jaws
Sinclair Sexsmith, ed., Best Lesbian Erotica, volume 6
Meg Elison, The Unnamed Midwife
Meg Elison, The Book of Etta
Meg Elison, Book of Flora
Meg Elison, “The Pill” in Big Girl
Collette, The Collective Stories of Collette
Pat Califia, Macho Sluts
Melinda Lao, Last Night at the Telegraph Club
Gretchen Felker-Martin Manhunter