Episodes
Monday Jul 03, 2023
Kitty Stryker:Refining Consent Culture
Monday Jul 03, 2023
Monday Jul 03, 2023
Guest: Kitty Stryker (writer, activist)
Kitty Stryker, author of Ask: Building Consent Culture and Ask Yourself: The Consent Culture Workbook joins Auntie Vice to chat about the nuances of consent, anger, activism, and change. Her deep thinking on consent and how interpersonal and structural power changes one's ability to fully consent has implications for politics, governing boards, medicine, policy, and the culture in general.
Sites and Socials
KittyStyker.com (site)
Read the rest of this entry »Monday Jun 19, 2023
Susan Wright: National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Monday Jun 19, 2023
Monday Jun 19, 2023
Guest: Susan Wright, Founder and Media Outreach for National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Susan Wright joins Auntie Vice to chat about the work of NCSF including "Consent Counts," working to revise the paraphillia section of the DSM to remove consensual adult kink from mental health disorders, and revising the sexual assault laws for the first time since 1962.
The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is the only outward-facing advocacy organization working for more freedoms for the kinky and nonmonogamous communities, Susan Wright founded NSCF as an outgrowth of her work with the National Organization for Women around the D/s clause in NOW's platform in the 1980s and 1990s. The work of NCSF has been critical in creating a culture of consent and safetly for all.
Sites and Socials
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Link for SW peer support group
Link for EARN IT Act opposition letter
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Monday Jun 12, 2023
Condoms for Schools (and other great ideas)!
Monday Jun 12, 2023
Monday Jun 12, 2023
Guests:
Amy Moy, Essential Access Health
Fiona Lu, Gen Up
This is the start of a series of episodes with activists, policy makers, and legislators discussing politics and bodily autonomy. Amy Moy works with Essential Access Health to make sure health care service providers have the knowledge, skills, and funding to provide services to all people regardless of age, gender, sexual orientation, ability to pay, insurance status, documentation status and more. Fiona Lu is a high school student and policy director for Gen Up, a student-led organizaation which creates and advocates for policies to better the lives of youth.
We discuss SB541, a bill working its way through the CA legislative process which would mandate schools provide free condoms for students. Condom access is a primary reason many students do not use barrier protection and why 50 percent of all chlamydia cases is in someone under 18.
We talk about the new constitutional right in California for reproductive care and abortion services and what that means for people in states hostile to abortion. Essential Access Health is administering major grants for increasing service capacity (especially in the Los Angeles area) as well as funds to cover lost wages, transportation, hotel lodging, and post-procedure care for people traveling to access abortion services.
We discuss Title X and what that means for minors seeking health care.
Show Links:
Teen Source+ (a health care service and learning portal for teens)
Talk with Your Kid (guides and help for parents talking to their kids about sexual health)
CA Reproductive Healthcare Bills 2023
Leg Info (find the most up-to-date information on bills in the CA legislature)
@GenUp.US (instagram)
@EssnAccessHlth (Instagram)
Monday Apr 10, 2023
Luna Matatas: In Persuit of Pleasure
Monday Apr 10, 2023
Monday Apr 10, 2023
Guest: Luna Matatas, educator, pleasure advocate
Luna Matatas, entreprenuer, pleasure educator and advocate, joins Auntie Vice to discuss her life as an HIV/AIDS educator, discovering her own pleasure, and coming into her own body and voice. She covers everything from feminine dominance, to CBT, to finding the right folks to take sexy pics of bigger, darker bodies (its a skill that most photographers lack!).
SItes and Socials
@LunaMatatas on most social media
Ask Your Auntie!
AYA segment is back answering a letter from a listener. The one covers how to eroticize an outie belly button! So much fun to provide new and fun ways to work with an outie. : )
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Monday Mar 20, 2023
Marla Renee Stewart: Pioneering Pleasure
Monday Mar 20, 2023
Monday Mar 20, 2023
Guest: Dr. Marla Renee Stewart, sexologist, educator, founder of Sex Down South, Clitfest, and Dickfest
Dr. Marla Renee Stewart, educator and pleasure pioneer, joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about a career in human sexuality, Black queer sexuality, and founding major conferences about pleasure!Marla, a Californian native and a Southern transplant, is a woman with passion, charisma and integrity. Motivated by passion, her mission in life is to educate and inspire others in a variety of ways. First and foremost, she is truly dedicated to getting people in touch with their body, mind and spirit. She believes in harnessing love and accepting people for who they are and where they are at in their lives. Her non-judgmental spirit speaks to people from all different backgrounds and she has the ability to get along with just about anyone. She is a maven in most everything that she pursues and she strives for perfection in everything she does. Mediocre is not in her vocabulary. She has a wonderful and supportive family, as well as amazing and compassionate friends. When she has some free time, she likes to watch movies, have provocative conversations with her friends and play basketball. She also loves to dance and convince her house guests to play strategy games with her
Sites and Socials:
MarlaReneeStewart.com Personal site
Velve Lips Sex Ed content
Sex Down South Conference
Race & Kink Monthly online series
Read the rest of this entry »Monday Feb 27, 2023
Rachel Kramer Bussel: Author Extraordinaire
Monday Feb 27, 2023
Monday Feb 27, 2023
Guest: Rachel Kramer Bussel, author, editor
Rachel Kramer Bussel, erotic and nonfiction author and editor for more than 70 anthologies joins Auntie Vice to chat about her career, writing, editing, and what she has learned through the process. After leaving law school to pursue writing, Bussel became one of the most recognized authors and editors of erotic stories. She chats about what writing erotica taught her about herself and her body, what its like to be a prolific editor, and the state of book bans in the United States.
Sites and Socials
Twitter: @Raquelita
Instagram @RachelKramerBussel
How to Write Erotica (book)
Read the rest of this entry »Sunday Feb 19, 2023
Dick Wound & BiDaily: The Healing Powers of Kink
Sunday Feb 19, 2023
Sunday Feb 19, 2023
Guests: Dick Wound and Bidaily of Off the Cuffs Podcast
The hosts of Off the Cuffs podcast, Dick Wound and Bidaily, join Auntie Vice to chat about what kink has meant to them and how it has changed their lives. One of the longest-running kinky lifestyle podcasts, Off the Cuffs has followed both Dick and Bidaily as they have grown through their kink journey. While many of their shows bring on guests to chat about their kink journeys, Auntie Vice gets down and dirty into what kink has meant for them.
Both Dick and Bidaily share about how finding kink helped them overcome shame and trauma in their past. Dick talks about how kink helped him find his way out of depression after a serious heart attack at the age of 30 (!!!) and Bidaily talks about her journey out the shame and trauma of purity culture.
Sites and Socials
Podcast Instagram @OCPKink
Podcast Twitter @OPCKink
Bidaily Twitter https://twitter.com/bidaily666
Bidaily Instagram https://www.instagram.com/bidaily666/
Bidaily on Onlyfans Bidaily666
Dick Wound on Twitter: @Dickwound
Dick Wound on Instagram @DWPodhost
Tuesday Nov 22, 2022
Cathy Reisenwitz: This Woman is Awesome!
Tuesday Nov 22, 2022
Tuesday Nov 22, 2022
Guest: Cathy Reisenwitz, Sex & the State substack newsletter
Cathy Reisenwitz, sex worker and writer, joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat about masculinity, Evangelicalism, loneliness, and more! When I discovered her newsletter, Sex and the State, I had to have her on the show. She has a lot of amazing insights into structural barriers to success, access to servicers, sex work, masculinity, and America. I love how she breaks down large systematic issues into critical discussion pieces.
Sites and Socials
Newsletter: Sex and the State on Substack
Website: https://cathyreisenwitz.com/
Twitter, Instagram, and OnlyFans @CathyReisenwitz
Monday Oct 24, 2022
Ruan Willow: F*cking Awesome!
Monday Oct 24, 2022
Monday Oct 24, 2022
Guest: Ruan Willow, writer and podcaster
Ruan Willow, host of Oh F*ck Yeah! podcast and author of over a dozen erotic novels joins Fat Chicks on Top to chat erotic writing, what it has taught her, and how it helped lessened her own shame.
Sites and Socials
Read the rest of this entry »Sunday Oct 16, 2022
Mac and Hillary: Free the Kink
Sunday Oct 16, 2022
Sunday Oct 16, 2022
Guests: Mac and Hillary, founders of FreeTheKink.com
Mac and Hillary, a couple living openly in a 24/7 power dynamic, join Auntie Vice to chat about power dynamics, kink, family and more! They explain Gorean kink. They discuss how these dynamics fit with their daily life as business owners and raising 4 children. Finally, they discuss founding FreeTheKink.com.
Website